Saints not Kardashian

I have to say I am a bit disappointed in the amount of coverage Kim Kardashian has received over the New Orleans Saints Super Bowl victory. The Saints win the first championship in their franchise history and yet there is so much focus on Kim. All I have heard is about a pending proposal, a rumor in which she started when she was doing a radio interview and has not stop denying it over and over again. I get the ‘Reggie’s gold luck charm’ but no, I am not with it. An athlete’s performance comes from their determination and drive not their wives or girlfriends. Of course they are there to support them after a loss and celebrate with them after a win but again, it’s the fuel that the athlete has inside that drives him to explode with excellence on the field or on the court. Nothing else comes in the way of a man and his passion. The credit is to all their doing, no one else.

So why do I keep hearing about Kim Kardashian? This isn’t about the media attention whore, it’s about Coach Payton, Drew Brees who knocked down five of the greatest quarter backs in the NFL all season and has become one of the greatest himself. This is about the Saints, as a team and their magic. It’s also bigger than football, it’s about the city of New Orléans that housed thousands of homeless in the super dome after Katrina and four years later they are back in the dome as champions – the dome that holds so much history. When no one ever thought they would make even it in the play offs or had any faith in the Saints franchise they proved that hard work, perseverance pays off in the end and it was destiny. This was meant to happen to the city that never lost hope, that bonded together through tough times and can now finally have a celebration while continuing to rebuild the city.

Oh! and girls, Bush wasn’t even effective in the game yet all I saw on Twitter and Facebook statues is ‘Congratulations Bush and Kim on the win’ but he is one of the best in the NFL so to praise him just because he is with Kardashian and not for his ethics, is wrong. And besides why are you congratulating her?!

Bush was being interviewed on NFL network and Kim ended up being interviewed as well. Obviously I don’t know the facts on how it happened, I am sure she was on the side and the net work saw her and told her to come on but regardless I would never have done an interview. She had no place to do one and there was no point to it. Like TV Host Wendy Williams always says about her ’she has to make everything about herself’! I know she is a famous figure but still, it wasn’t her place, it’s football not Hollywood and just because she is dating an NFL player doesn’t mean she can be a part of his success. She has done six radio interviews already and I know it won’t be the end of it. She is just too much.

My thing against is her and how she came about. She shot to super star fame over a sex tape, in which landed her modeling gigs, a huge reality show, Play Boy, fragrance and fashion design deals and many more countless endorsements that enabled her financial success with a net worth of $10 million in the last two years. Good for her, you can’t knock anyone’s hustle down. It’s also the media’s fault for continuing to cover her – talk about her, feature her and put her in their front pages and make it seem like there is a purpose of her success. She has no talent, all she does is exploit her body..so how do girls ‘look up to her’? I laugh when I see and hear she has fans, why not look up to real women, women who have worked hard to get to where they are and you barely hear about them in tabloids, women such as Pink or Scarlet Johanssen and many more who have earned their success and have a purpose, a purpose that isn’t about how many magazine covers they are in, being out in paparazzi infested spots in Hollywood and how many endorsements they can get.

But it will never end with her, she always finds way to made headlines. It’s as if she has given up her soul for fame. She has become greedy with it and her head has gotten so big. She is a beautiful girl and she isn’t the only girl with a big ass and how many times do we have to hear about her talking about her body, how she loves her curves yet she has a line of fitness DVD’s, diet supplement endorsement deal and literally in every magazine she talks about her body and so forth. Honestly I don’t think she can ever live without fame. It’s sad and I am tired of her, the rest of the reality TV stars and the media for promoting them and placing Kardashian in ’super stardom’.

Also, it was reported when the Saints won Kim and her mother immediately rushed and Kim pushed her way onto the field to get the celebratory shot with Bush and since only family is allowed and they took the family pass, his mother, father and brother were not permitted on the field till the stadium cleared up.

Why can’t Reggie Bush get some glory without Kim Kardashian everywhere? Matter of fact, why should he be the one to get attention from being with her? She is nothing but a media whore. He and his team played and won the game last night, not the Kardashian’s. Why can’t she just stop taking this as another way to gain publicity for herself? But more importantly…why won’t she shut up and not make everything about herself and just go away, far far away?!?! Her 15 minutes of fame keeps finding an excuse to extend!

The champions are taking the trophy home today and there will be a parade tomorrow. I can’t imagine the amount of love and appreciate the residents of New Orleans will have for the boys, they deserve it and so does the city. I can just see it now, the coaches, the players, the thousands of fans praising them and of course Kim Kardashian making sure she gets seen.

To be honest the only sad part of the Saints winning is this parasitic family, mostly Kim latching on to Reggie Bush and his victory.

PS!

After I wrote this post a few hours ago, I went home to find Kim Kardashian in every TV interview talking about how proud she is of him and the Saints and footage showed her posing for pictures on the field…typical. Then, I finally see Reggie Bush in interviews but all I kept hearing where questions regarding the ring!!!! Reggie answered every interviewer with the same answer “There is a time and place for that and it isn’t now, it’s about our team and New Orleans.” You can see the frustration on the man’s face! Kim has always talked about her hopes to get married but it got heavier when Khloe got married and Kourtney had a baby. She now has the world asking and begging Reggie to put a ring on it! She basically has the media begging and pressuring him to propose. OMG…I am done with this subject, she struck a nerve with me with her actions last night, she even managed to set the standards for media whoring and she is the one who masterminded it!

UPDATE!

Reports are flying that they did indeed get engaged. Kim’s biggest dream for even more public attention has finally come true. Here is the official statement that is hitting the net:

‘Sources in Miami for the Super Bowl festivities, report that the owner of the restaurant himself, Myles Chefetz, confirmed it last night.Mr. Chefetz even dished the details to Luda’s table: Reggie popped the question in a private corner of the restaurant with both his and Kim’s family there. In the pics of the couple leaving the restaurant Friday, it was obvious that Kim was hiding her left hand. And Reggie was even caught checking her hand, possibly to see if it was covered. Kim “publicity hog” Kardashian keeping this a secret is a miracle. But she’s likely holding off on officially announcing the news because it’s her Super Bowl champ man’s time to shine. Or she’s just holding off for the highest bidder to pay her for the full story. Either way, looks like Kim’s much expressed wish has come true. Maybe Kim’s second time getting married will be the charm. Congrats to the couple.’

Quote of the Day

The greater your capacity to love, the greater your capacity to feel the pain.

- Jennifer Aniston

Look Of The Week

Diane Kruger never disappoints on the red carpet! I know this was from last weeks SAG Awards but I can’t believe I forgot to do a post about this beautiful dress!

Kruger wore a custom chiffon gown from Jason Wu. Wu became a household name after he designed First Lady Michelle Obama’s inaugural gown.

I am not crazy about the color. I would have liked it better if it was in a pink or peach. The dress fits her beautifully! I like that she allowed the dress to be the attraction and wore minimal jewelry and her hair was away from her face. I would have gone with different earnings though, I would have chosen a different color than the dress to also make the jewelry stand out.

But all in all she looked beautiful. There are no flaws, other than the color of the dress! I love this new style of asymmetrical gowns, it’s different from just the old-fashioned off the shoulder gowns. Designers are having fun with it and that is how it should be; fashion should be fun, creative, fresh and original. We will be seeing a lot of that style of gowns this season!!

Favorite Grammy Performance

In light of this past weekends Grammy, I chose to put up my favorite Grammy performance of all time! It was last year and it ended the show with a bang! All four of my all time favorite rappers, T.I, Jay Z, Lil Wayne and Kanye West.

When the song first came out I thought to myself if they were to ever perform it, it would be nice if they all match wearing all black, well they read my mind without actually reading it! They all matched with wearing suits! They looked so handsome!! The thing I love most about rappers is how they perform, they give it their all and spit their heart out. They go hard, son!

And how brave was MIA?! She was nine months pregnant and it was literally her due date! She is one tough cookie! I don’t blame her for not skipping out, I would not want to miss being a part of this great performance!

I love this song, I love each rappers verse. The song was very well put together, the way their style of rap blended was amazing. They are four of the greatest rappers of all time. It doesn’t get any better then them!!

Grammys 2010

Lady CaCa in custom-made Armani, she looked like she was dropped from the solar system. It’s not fashion, its costume and it’s bad. She should surprise us one time and actually look like a lady.

Taylor Swift in a Kaufman Franco gown. It’s boring and typical. She always has her hair styled the same, in curls and she always wears sparkly, metallic and glittery dresses. She is also young, she should have fun and play with different looks while sticking to her roots. I also think the dress would have looked better if it weren’t for the sparkly embellishments.

Beyonce in a Stephanie Rolland gold gown. She looked like a golden globe. It may have been her night, as she broke Grammy history with her wins but it defiantly wasn’t her fashionable night. The hair should never watch your gown. She also has some type of glitter in her hair that makes her look cheap and tacky. Her hair is also styled plain, I hate plain and the light locks doesn’t look good on her. The dress looks like it was a curtain that was then made to be a dress. The stitching and pattern is hideous. I loved her earnings, but it would have shown and looked better if her hair was up in a ponytail and with a strapless gown on, other than that it was an ugly look on her.

Rihanna in Elie Saab couture gown. First, her hair looks awful and second, the dress is awful. I don’t like white on the red carpet, I think cream or off-white would be more appropriate. The dress would have looked decent if there weren’t any feathers, she looked like a swan that was being strangled.

Britney Spears…who even knew she was in attendance?! Well, she was and she was trying to get attention by wearing this. She was almost decked out in Dolce & Gabanna. ..the designers didn’t finish making this! I just don’t understand it. Her hair looks good, I like brunette on her. She isn’t wearing a dress, so I am assuming it is a leotard covered in see through fishnet. Only Britney would wear something like this!

Katey Perry…what the fffff is that?! Can someone explain that to me? She was wearing a Zac Posen gown. It reminds me of a gold construction paper and kids decorated it by gluing in studs and confetti on it. It is just hideous; so is her short bangs, that isn’t banging!

Miley Cyrus…17 going on 37, as always. It’s a Herve leger mini dress.This is the most covered I have seen her. The excessive make up is not necessary and those extensions are horrible. She looks like a cheap rock star wannabe. Why can’t she act and live her age is beyond me..but I guess that is what fame and money does to little girls. They grow up too fast.

Jennifer Lopez in Versace…this is one of the worst looks I’ve seen her in. The half dress is ugly, apparently the desiginer ran out of ideas for this dress. But as always her hair and make up looks flawless and her body looks amazing.

Mary J. Blidge in Gucci. Boring, I have seen that look a lot on the red carpet. Her hair, looks like Rihanna’s and again, it’s awful. I like the color on her though.

Ciara in Givenchy…what in living hell is this?! Is she auditioning to be a demonatrix?! I just can’t get into this disaster…NEXT!

BEST DRESSED

Pink in Tony Word couture gown. She looked beautiful! For a rocker and a bad ass, she transforms into feminine and glamorous and she does it best. I don’t like the hair!! But it’s Pink! Short hair is the style she has rocked since she started. The dress fits her beautifully.

Keri Hilson in Dolce & Gabana, the peach colored gown is beautiful and she looks amazing in it! She got snubbed for Best New Artist! No one ever heard of the band that won! Anyway, she looked glamorous. My favorite look of the night.

Over all, I thought it was an okay show. Award shows are getting boring. I liked it better a few years ago, when it was fun and unexpected. Now hardly any artists show up and half of them get snubbed. Just isn’t the same anymore. The performances were good, but long. More than half of the awards were given out in a pre telecast event before the Grammys went live. Also, regarding the Michael Jackson tribute, I like the song they chose. Celine Dion, Usher, Jennifer Hudson and Carrie Underwood sounded great. But, it was odd pairing and what kind of tribute was that for the King Of Pop?! There is no one else that could honor Jackson as Chris Brown could. If anyone is to honor him it should be him and only him. About the 3D thing, what the heck? What was the point of it? And how are people at home going to have 3D glasses on? And how about showing a montage of Jackson instead of a little girl in nature. I also hope this is the last we see of his children, enough exploiting them.

Beyonce – Her performance was pretty dull. We always expect her to put on a great show, and she always delivers but last night wasn’t one of those nights. I loved how she came out with the guys behind her but then I was surprised to hear her singing “If I were a Boy”, she came out with that single a year ago and it wasn’t nominated, and we are pretty much sick of ‘Single Ladies’, so why didn’t she perform a nominated single “Halo”? I kept thinking she was going to stop and start busting out dance moves! Vocally she is amazing, but she didn’t sound as good as she usually does. It was lackluster and boring for a Beyonce performance. (Look at Rihanna watching Beyonce, she was probably thinking to herself “I can’t sing or dance, yet I am considered a pop star but look at her, this is what a true artist is and I will never be that.”)

Pink – I love, love Pink! She is a true artist. Her music touches my soul, I can truly connect to her words and hear and feel her pain. She tells stories and I cry along relating to what she is saying. She is just amazing. Her performance was unbelievable! I love the circe se loi influenced performance. Who else can sing live while upside down?! Rihanna can’t even sing standing still. Afterwards she said “No no one has an excuse to lip sync.” One thing, I didn’t really get was the wet part, especially being wet on top of everyone and sprinkling water on them! And since when did she become an under rated artist? She gets nominated but never wins anymore. She should be the one people should pay attention to for a real musician, not artists like Rihanna that can’t sing, don’t write their own music or can’t even put on a show!

Taylor Swift – She isn’t as great as everyone makes her out to be. She is talented, but I feel like ever since the incident with Kanye West her career skyrocketed. Everyone feels bad for her now. Well, everyone needs to get over it! Her music is good, her album sold millions but I don’t see her lasting in the music business.

Jay Z’s win - Jay Z won his 10th Grammy!! I love him! He is also Rihanna’s Grammy good luck charm! She won her third Grammy with the help of Jay Z. (Umbrella and twice for Run This Town) The little boy is Beyonce’s adorable nephew! Jay said as he got up he felt something on his leg, turned out bringing him up wasn’t planned. Julez held on tight to his legs and set his mind on going up there with his Uncle! So cute! As Rihanna and Jay walked up holding Julez hand, I thought it was cute how they looked like bride and groom and as a little family! Hence, the white gown she has on. Ha! Oh! and how cute was Beyonce’s acceptance speech?! I thought it was about time she acknowledged him as her husband, let alone say ‘I love you’ to him in front of millions! His reaction was priceless, he looked just as surprised as everyone else! It sure was a special night for her and it was nice to see her truly be herself.

The Mute! – Drake, Eminem and Lil Wayne were the best for last! I love this song and they did great! Kanye West is featured on the song as well, so I knew he wasn’t going to be there to perform but I was holding on to hope that he would surprise us! I love him and the the media needs to get over what he did already! I hope when he comes back with another genius album he will get the recognition and nominations deserved! And what was up with the muting?!?! Seriously, what the hell was up with that?! They weren’t even cursing, and if they were they could have censored the curse words instead of a verse! Jeesh!

So, when do you think Chris Brown and Kanye West will be allowed back in award shows or TV events?! It’s getting ridiculous! Anyway, what were your thoughts? I’d love to know.

When peacocks & tutu’s throw up on you…

What in the blue hell was this?! I read somewhere in a blog that they considered their get ups high fashion and fabulous..I almost gagged! As a student of fashion I can’t stand it when hideous and ridiculous outfits like that are considered high fashion. There is no way they feel feminine and sexy while wearing what it is that they are wearing! It looks like peacocks and tutus threw up on them.

Singer Ciara has never impressed when it comes to fashion. I have never seen her wear something decent, I always say that she needs ot fire who ever styles her! She over does it, she just tries to hard. No matter how great her songs are or how amazing her dance moves are she doesn’t really get the recognition deserved because she is in the shadow of the only powerful female R&B singer Beyonce and now apparently Rihanna.

Ciara was decked out in  Givenchy Couture Spring 2010 ensemble. This is just hideous. How does she feel attractive?! I just don’t get it…if you want attention from the media ‘leak’ naked pictures of yourself like Rihanna did or just do something other than looking like a damn fool. It’s just wrong and who ever thinks this is fashion, not only do they not know anything about it but I feel bad for them if they think this is anything other than hideous.

Another attention whore for the night. I can’t stand the girl, she has no talent. She can’t sing, dance, act or even dress. Yet she has had hit songs written by producers that made her become a hit maker, she has Jay Z who introduced her to the entertainment world and who has her back and has shot to super stardom with the whole mess that happened between her and Chris Brown last year. A lot of people have placed her in the category of fashionable, high fashion and so forth. Umm, a lot of these people need a new pair of eyes. Granted she is original, she dresses how she wants and doesn’t care what anyone says but it doesn’t mean she or Lady Caca aka Lady Gaga should be named as one of the most fashionable women in the world. Anyway, her tutued dress was ridiculous and so is her hair! Oh! and in case any of you were interested on who the desginer of this was, they are Viktor & Rolf’s Spring and it was from Summer 2010 collection.  The designers have described the line as “credit card crunch” couture.

Ciara – Again, you upstage me! Can’t a girl have one night! I came here looking like a ostrich tonight so I can have some attention and you show up with this coloring book or tutu..or whatever it is that you are wearing!

Rihanna – It’s all about me, always will be! Don’t you remember what happened to me last year?! So kiss my ass just like everyone else has been doing.

Ciara – Um…why is everyone staring at us like this?

Rihanna – Uh, hello don’t you see how ridiculous we look! But keep smiling, this is how you get attention. Beyonce ain’t got shit on us tonight!

Ciara – But how am I going to snag a rapper? Don’t they like us half naked like how we always are, I am feeling too over dressed. I am feeling so claustrophobic.

Rihanna – Get away from me. Remember I am victim of abuse. It’s all about me!

And as for the rest of the night everyone looked at them and wondered to themselves ’what the fuck do they have on’?!

Holding hands? No, holding oranges.

When I first saw a picture of Jay Z and Beyonce holding hands, I was like “Aw!, finally they act as if they actually know each other!” but then, I notice that what is uniting them are oranges! Seems like The Carters were trying to trick the paparazzi because upon first glance it looks like they’re showing the very rare affection of holding hands. But nope, they are holding oranges..why oranges? Odd, but cute.

Beyonce is always changing her hair, always. I like this look on her, the color and the bangs are looking banging! But my favorite hair color on her is when she had it black with full curls. Now about the outfit…it would have been so cute if she would have worn black jeans not leather pants! It’s too much leather! I love the boots she has on!! Side note – Jay Z was named one of the 25 stylish men in the world…the man does know how to dress, but sometimes the baggy jeans that he tends to always wear doesn’t cut it. He does have style but I have seen better. For him to be named one of the most stylish out of 25 men is a bit of a stretch. Don’t you think?

Look of The Week

Last week Jessica Simpson was chosen for Fashion Flop.

This week she bounced back with a casual adorable outfit and is this weeks ‘Look Of The Week’. I usually don’t do a post more than once about a celeb but I really liked what she is wearing. It also shows the difference of what she wore last week wasn’t fitting for her body and how this outfit is.

Simpson was spotted out to dinner with friends last night, she wore washed out light blue skinny jeans, a black tank top, white blazer and an adorable necklace. It’s simple, but I really like it. That necklace is so darn cute!! I want it! And unlike her attempt to look sophisticated, that wasn’t working at all, this casual look does. She has a very cute figure and like I said before she needs to find what works for her and this defiantly does. All it took is tight form-fitting jeans and a top that doesn’t make you look big and a jacket to make the outfit complete and high heels to give you extra boost that also makes you look thin.

Honestly, it’s all I’ve been wearing lately. Right now I am really into jackets, tight jeans and a pair of heels. I am curvy, my waist is smaller than my thighs so I finally found what works for my body. I used to wear loose tops that made me look pregnant. Now, if I wear a loose-fitting top I add a blazer and a necklace or a thin belt around my waist to showcase my figure. It is layers being added the right way, skinny tight jeans is all I wear. I don’t wear leggings or any type of jeans. Some say skinny jeans should only be for skinny girls but I disagree! Do you guys agree with me?

I will do a post about jeans and what to wear to flatter your figure.

Heidi Montag: Gone Too Far

We all look in the mirror and wish we can change something in our appearance. Whether we feel like we have a big nose, small breast, big ears or a long chin. None of us will ever be satisfied with ourselves. But we tend to forget that we look the way we do for a reason, we come from our parents. God made us who we are so we can represent ourselves and our individuality.

I am not against plastic surgery at all. I do feel that if you really don’t like something about yourself and is willing to change it, then why not. A nose job, breast implants…it’s become the norm for our generation. However I am against molding a new face and going over board with it.

Lets talk Heidi Montag. She stars on MTV The Hills alongside her husband Spencer Pratt together they are not only reality stars but attention whores that literally do anything and everything for publicity and unlike Kim Kardashian they aren’t afraid to admit to their media whoring ways.

We first met Heidi on the first season of The Hills, she was best friends and roommates with Lauren Conrad. She wasn’t as famous as LC, she was just a fashion student that moved to LA from Colorado that got lucky. I will admit, when I first saw her I didn’t think she was attractive but she wasn’t ugly. She was an average looking girl with an average style.

Every season came with a different Heidi. She went from no make up and short dark blond hair that dresses in jeans and tops to blonder locks, tight dresses and full on make up. Then came Spencer Pratt. We watched her change her self in the midst of being in the relationship. She became his muse and only existing in his world. She transformed. Her and Spencer started to be everywhere in the media bashing Conrad and coming up with rumors and trying to ruin her reputation. They would tip of paparazzi and they would stage photo shoots as candid shots so it can be featured in magazines.

She first had breast implants and a nose job. She admitted to have been made fun of when she was younger because she was flat chested, had a big nose and a ‘Jay Leno’ chin. The changes she made weren’t drastic as it is now. Girls related to her insecurities and understand the minor changes she had done.

I think having that much work done on yourself shows how ugly she is on the inside. There is such a thing as overboard and she’s definitely gone there. Ten producers in one day is ridiculous. Thankfully she came out of the surgery room healthy and alive. As we know that is mostly not the case when it comes to plastic surgeries. She pictures may come out sexier and prettier now, but what do you really see when you are looking at yourself? Do you see your old self, your second self or the 3.0 version of yourself?

The 10 procedures she had done are:

• Mini brow lift – Was this seriously necessary?!

• Botox in the forehead – Why?! Your only 23!
• Nose job revision - The first time she got it done, looked fine!
• Fat injections in cheeks and lips – Again, why?!
• Chin reduction – I can understand that part.
• Neck liposuction - Didn’t even know that existed! At 23 what do you need to have done on your neck?!!?
• Ears pinned back – I just don’t get it…
• Breast augmentation revision – She is so tiny! Why put balloons on your body?!
• Liposuction on her waist and thighs – She had the cutest figure before!
• Buttocks augmentation – This is just too much.

Heidi erased her genetics. What if she has kids one day and she won’t remember how she looked like before to compare her kids features to hers? What if she has a daughter one day, how can she tell her that beauty is on the inside with what she has done to herself? I think that she is forgetting that fame comes and goes. Being a reality star, a pop star or an actress is only temporary. In interviews she keeps mentioning that there is a difference between her and other girls that would “look up” to her because of her career path. She kept mentioning fame and being a pop star. I believe that on top of her insecurities she did this to herself thinking she will be the most beautiful woman and her sex appeal will sell records. Women like Beyonce or Alicia Keys are the most successful and beautiful women in the world. Their sex appeal doesn’t come from skimpy clothes or half-naked photo shoots. It comes from their natural beauty, and the fact that have real talent!

When a reporter said to her that she looks fake and plastic almost like a Barbie, Heidi had a huge grin on her face saying she loves that and she wishes to have her own Barbie one day. She also said she isn’t done, she wants more and denies that she is obsessed and addicted to plastic surgery. The girl needs help, instead of getting all these surgeries done to change herself she should have went for a brain surgery to fix herself mentally. “I think I look like myself. I think I just look like a different, improved version of myself,” she said.

Heidi has expressed how religious she is and how important GOD is to her, how praying every night, going to church and reading the Bible every night is a huge part of her life and who she is. Yet, she has done Play Boy, she has had all these cosmetic operations done and she constantly lies and creates stories about her life to gain fame. Where does GOD fit in? If you were really spiritual and read the Bible daily, you would know that God tells you that you are beautiful how you are and that beauty is truly within. At the end of all the money and popularity you may achieve in life, God, family and you all come before anything, it is all you have left when your world spins and you can’t keep it still. He is the creator, not you.

She also lied and said that she almost died after surgery. She claimed she was given too much Demoral, same medication that killed Michael Jackson. Her plastic surgeon denied that and he said that the surgery was done successfully. She also didn’t mention it on her first reveal before all the media interviews in People Magazine. So her lying about this also shows how hungry she is for attention. How she will go so far for fame. I don’t think she knew who she was before the fame, getting married and she defiantly won’t know now. She has let go of herself, she sculpted her being and she isn’t human…she is plastic. She is living as if she is a real life Barbie. It’s quiet said. It really is.

I wonder what her conversation with her husband was like. Is she a muse where he can use her image for more publicity to maintain fame and add money to his pockets? I just can’t wrap my head around it. She is only 23 years old, she is already married and now has gone through 12 plastic surgeries in total. What happens when she gets older? What happens when she gets pregnant? She has said that Spencer was very upset about her decision and was against it. In my opinion…it’s bullshit, he may have been upset but as her husband and protector he could have stopped her.

I do believe that Spencer loves her for who she is, he has been with her before having any plastic surgeries done. I wonder if he will stay with her after all of this. I wonder what he thinks when he looks at her and see that her face isn’t the same face he fell in love with a few years ago.

Before having any of this done her husband and her plastic surgeon should have forced her to seek help. Talk to someone and find out what it is that is making her hate how she looks and what had made her think about all these changes she wants done. Her surgeon did do an amazing job, I am not going to deny that. But he should have thought about how young and fame driven she is before performing all these surgeries.

Actress Emmy Rousim expressed her thoughts on Twitter and I couldn’t agree more: “It upsets me to see young women in the spotlight advocating plastic surgery. ANY surgery is extremely dangerous and should not be taken lightly, much less, used as a tool to increase notoriety or popularity.
By putting this on magazine covers, we are somehow legitimizing the dangerous lengths to which some will go for fame and “beauty”. There are so many REAL ISSUES in this world that NEED attention. Let’s try to take a moment to be grateful we are ALIVE.”

And as for what’s driving her and others women, researchers say the media is part of the problem, bombarding us with images of this ideal Barbie-doll person that’s unattainable without being anorexic or with the help of cosmetic surgeries and more. The result, especially for someone who starts at such a young age, could be dangerous on a psychological level.

“I think, fundamentally, when somebody goes on for many, many, many procedures, and starts at a young age, they’re trying to change something about themselves, they want to become a new person, and you can’t just do that through a scalpel,” said Debbie Then, a California-based psychologist who specializes in women and appearance. “The bottom line is they want to in some way change who they are because they’re not happy with it at the core,” and that problem can be more of a psychological one, she said.

I do believe that the media is out fault for adding more insecurities and pressure to young women everywhere; famous or not. But I also believe that it is up to us to stop ourselves from these lewd images and thoughts. We need to find our inner beauty and confidence. If you really aren’t with yourself seek help. If you aren’t being told how beautiful you are, tell yourself. If you are being told to lose weight by family or friends, remember you are the only looking in the mirror. You are the one living in your skin. Live for yourself not for the world. Especially being in your 20’s is crucial, we are figuring out who we are and what we want out of life and from ourselves. I always say that being a woman is the hardest battle, we are our worst enemy and worst critic. We will never win against our self, so why spend the rest of our life picking a fight? We aren’t ugly, only our thoughts are.

Check her out in this ridiculous interview.

Mother Gone Wild

I don’t know who and how this woman is famous and why paparazzi seems to follow her. I didn’t even bother looking up her information, I am familiar of her by seeing her pictures on blogs and magazines. One day I was watching a reality show titled ‘Leave it to Lamas’, apparently the father is a washed up actor and Shauna Sand is his ex wife. She is a play boy model, had kids with him and had an ugly divorce that ended up with accusations of having an affair with her step son. When I go on my daily gossip sites, I sometimes see her pictures and see how she is dressed while with her children none the less. It’s disgusting.

The way she dresses is how hookers used to dress in the late 90’s, at least they upgraded their wardrobe, she should too. No, actually she needs a complete make over. You’re a mother for god sake! She has three daughters that are under 13 years old. What kind of example are you setting?? the stripper heels…seriously? Why?!. The huge fake boobs don’t need to be shown every single time your out. You don’t need for your closet to consist of half-naked small pieces of items – whether with your kids or out partying – to feel sexy. A woman is sexy and beautiful when she is classy, it doesn’t matter how she looks and how slutty she dresses, that isn’t appealing. It’s about class and how you represent yourself.

If that was my mother I would be mortified. Maybe the little girls don’t understand it, maybe they think that this is how mothers dress and it’s normal. I would hope for their sake that they never ever say “mommy I want to look like you”. Every girl says that to her mother and we love to play with our mothers closet. When I was younger I thought my mother was the most fashionable woman in the world and used to sit in her closet for hours, dressing up with her pearls, scarves, red lipstick and shoulder padded jackets.

I am just disgusted. I can’t believe this is how a woman in this day and age dresses, but mostly that this is how she dresses in front of her children. She can be the greatest, most loving mother to these girls but how can people ever think that and take her seriously and not judge her with how she displays herself? How do you earn respect when you are out with see through netted dresses showing off your goodies? I think she needs to let go from being a mother gone wild and being stuck in her play boy days and transform herself into a decent respected woman and remember that she is a mother.