Lyrics of the day

“One Love” by Jennifer Lopez

Took a shot, with the bad boy from the block
Picked my love right from the start
Mister wrong, he plays his part
Back to the beginning, now round two
Try my luck with something new
We danced until we said “I do”
My luck is bad, no more us, too
No me and you

Is it too much to ask
For a real love,
Something that’ll last?
Is there one love,
Only once in a lifetime?
It’s so hard to find,
The perfect one to call mine
Is there one love
Somebody that compliments me?
And makes me wanna never leave?
Made just right for me?
Is there one love, one love, one love, one love?

It’s take three, could there be a part for me?
Came and swept me off my feet
Went nowhere but kept the ring
Once again I’m lonely
Number four, he sang to me but I’m not sure
So worn out, but love just saw
Made me wanna try once more
And I couldn’t say no

What’s wrong with the girl
Who wants everything
Good love, real trust, true meaning?
Who truly completes me?
I’m good on my own, but I have to know

Is there one love
Only once in a lifetime?
It’s so hard to find,
The perfect one to call mine
Is there one love
Somebody that compliments me?
And makes me wanna never leave?
Made just right for me?
Is there one love, one love, one love, one love?

– This song is from Jennifer Lopez latest album Love?. She actually wrote this song, which is rare because she’s never written any of her songs but in light of the recent announcement of her divorce the song has a lot of meaning!

“It’s take three, could there be a part for me?meaning, her third marriage.
“Number four, he sang to me but I’m not sure” – Marc, the 4th love of her life. Diddy, Chris Judd, Ben Afffleck where the first three.

J.Lo doesn’t last in relationships, this is her third divorce, one broken engagement and has been in many relationships with different men. Maybe it’s her, maybe she keeps looking for love and jumping from one relationship to the next when she really needs to love herself before going into another heartbreak. Who knows but when someone goes through that many failed relationships then its obvious that the person is the cause of the demises of the relationships. I also think that she did try to make it work for the sake of her family but she couldn’t get out of Marc’s controlling and jealous ways. He was too scared to loose her and that was obvious to everyone. It’s sad to see her and Marc Anthony split, especially since they just looked so in love recently and they have 3 year old twins but for the split to be sudden after they were just seen together happy and praising their love for one another in interviews, you just never what happened and truthfully you just never know what goes on inside someones home. It seems like she was unhappy at home but put up a front in public. Her career took off drastically, she is in super stardom even when she was in her prime her fame wasn’t this big as it i today because of American Idol, so I am sure that also effected their relationship. She wasn’t in Long Island anymore being a wife and mother while he tours. Anyway, I wish them the best and I hope Jennifer will find her true love one day!

Update: Another song off her album LOVE? that can give a little insight of how she’s feeling while in love that shows unhappiness and struggling to hold on and make things worse to keep her family together but having to face with reality that he isn’t good for her and she has to start over.

“Starting Over”

He’s all right
He’s all wrong
He’s a player
He’s a dog
He’s my friend
He’s my foe
I just can’t leave him
I can’t go
I got my reasons
I got my pride
I got these kids
We got these ties
Had this love
Had these dreams
Falling apart at the seams

He’s my man when we’re at home
And it can’t hurt if I don’t know
All his secrets all his lies
I just keep pushing ‘em out my mind
I wish that everybody would stop judging
Pointing fingers its cutting
My heart is broken
And no better, feeling so bad

I gotta make decisions
I’m strong but who am I kidding
I’ll be okay
But this love is tearing me in half

Nobody wants to be the one breaking up
I’m down on my knees and praying for his love

I’m in love
I’m still in love
I just don’t think that it’s enough
I can feel it getting colder
I’m afraid of starting over

He makes me feel like a child
He makes me happy when he smiles
He makes me sad
Makes me mad
Want to give him all I have
And I have tried to treat him good
Show support like I should
Did my part, he’s my heart
And I’ve been faithful from the start

I gotta make decisions
I’m strong but who am I kidding
I’ll be okay
But this love is tearing me in half

Nobody wants to be the one breaking up
I’m down on my knees and praying for his love

I’m in love
I’m still in love
I just don’t think that it’s enough
I can feel it getting colder
I’m afraid of starting over

To save this life
We built together
We need another chance
It’s like my whole life
And my existence
He holds in his hands

I’m in love
I’m still in love
I just don’t think that it’s enough
I can feel it getting colder
The time has come for starting over

UPDATE:

“It was a very bad marriage, and Jennifer got the courage to end things,” an insider says, adding, “[Marc] was a terrible husband.”

At issue: Anthony’s raging jealousy over Lopez’s career, his compulsion to control everything from her business endeavors and even her famous wardrobe, and, according to multiple sources, at least one extra-marital affair in 2009.

And despite her ultra-glamourous, ultra-confident persona in the public eye, Lopez “actually has low self-esteem,” one pal explains. “And Marc really played into that insecurity. That’s why she put up with his abuse for such a long time.”

Update:

ennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony announced their surprising split last Friday, but the duo came close to parting ways two years ago because of Anthony’s fling with a flight attendant.

In the new Us Weekly, out now, a source says that Anthony, 42, hooked up with a flight attendant he met aboard a private plane in 2009.

“Marc and Jennifer almost split up over it,” the source tells Us of the couple, parents to 3-year-old twins Emme and Max.

Seconds another insider: “Jennifer was going to leave him then, but Marc begged her to stay. They went to marriage counseling and she decided to give it another shot. He was someone she truly loved.”

Although Anthony and the American Idol judge, 41, weathered the storm of infidelity, his raging jealousy over Lopez’s successful career continued to drive a wedge between them. Anthony’s controlling behavior over his wife’s wardrobe and business endeavors — and his own unfounded paranoia about her and other men– also factored in to their major decision to end their seven year marriage.

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